I've been revisiting the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People again. Thank goodness I teach this material. It always seems to come up on my teaching schedule just as I need to hear it all again. After a somewhat grueling summer of grad school classes and teaching, I'm a little out of touch with that most fundamental of habits--Habit 1: Be Proactive.
Being proactive is not about planning ahead per se. It's about accepting responsibility for your own life and happiness. It's about acting instead of being acted upon. It's also about letting go of the past and history and moving forward. So my new mantra this month is this:
Live in Present Tense and Active Voice
Living in present tense is all about focusing on the here and now: trying to be truly present in each moment of your life. A great analogy for this is the rear-view mirror. You need a rear-view mirror to navigate safely and to know where you have been--to preserve your history so to speak. But if you focus only on the rear view mirror you won't be able to see where you are going!
Living in active voice is all about taking action instead of waiting to be acted upon. So this month I want to focus on these active verbs:
Breathe.
Move.
Laugh.
Create.
"Each of us makes his own weather, determines the color of the skies in the emotional universe which he inhabits."
--Fulton J. Sheen